I've Grown Up

My friends told me that I should go out with them two weeks ago without a significant reason. To make the long story short, I said 'NO' then the thought came to my mind that I havent gone out for sooo long since college. I havent even looked forward to parties anymore. It's like, Im not interested with staying up late at parties, drinking my ass out and what not.

then I thought, there are other ways to have fun rather than staying up late, drinking, smoking, and dancing all night. You can chil at coffee shops with friends, totally sober, making the most of the night and you go home at 11 or 12 the maximum. Well, I think that'd be more fun rather than going to clubs. You can go to a coffee shop that plays party music without alcohol, I mean, we have options.

So these last few weeks, I asked my friend KC if she could go out with me and hit a good club in the city. When we got there, there werent alot of ppl which was really strange cuz usually, that club get jampacked with ppl but it was a totally different crowd. Pretty unsual. Ok so we went there, ordered a couple of drinks and sat on the couch looking at those ppl dancing. We had a good time, I admit but we thought that it'd been better if we had gone to any fast food place or cafe which we can eat and talk about stuff without loud music on the background.

I guess she agreed to go out with me cuz she has realized the same thing. It was pretty awkward cuz at some point, we didnt know what to do in that club. So we ended up going home without doing anything in particular.

The next week, my friends from college asked me to go out as well cuz it's been awhile since we havent seen each other. If I were to count the weeks, I think about 4months. It has been a really long time so I decided to go out with them. Chilled at one of our favorite places in the city and talked about our experiences in college and random stuff. It was a pretty cool night. We didnt get drunk.

Bottom line is, whatever you wanna do to have fun, make sure that you do it with the right company at a right time and in a right place. You dont wanna waste your time dealing with nonsense ppl and get totally awkward with them. Always find something meaningful to talk about rather than keeping quiet and waiting for the time to go home. Enjoy, I think that's the most important thing in going out.